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Am I Safe or I Am Safe? Creating the Path of Least Resistance to Life

30 October @ 10:00 am - 31 October @ 3:00 pm


Am I Safe or I Am Safe? Creating the Path of Least Resistance to Life

What does it really mean to feel safe? Why is it so important? Is safety really the foundation feeling upon which all of your life experiences are created? And what happens when you have experiences that shatter your sense of safety? And we ALL have these experiences - you are most definitely not alone!

Is it possible that there might be something about your current sense of safety that is impacting how you see yourself, others and the world around you?

Am I Safe or I Am Safe? Creating the Path of Least Resistance to Life is a 2 Day Personal Immersion which shines light on what you may not currently be seeing about how your sense of safety may be impacting your life experiences. This eye opening and thought provoking introductory Immersion has the power to literally blow your mind wide open.

This Immersion explores what it means to have a strong sense of safety and how this feels, whilst also exploring what you currently believe to be true about yourself, others and life itself.

Over the 2 days we will:

  • Enable you to understand how safety is the basis of the thoughts your create and how this may be what really lies underneath your current identity, life challenges and patterns of behaviour
  • Introduce you to the tools to enable you to make visible some of your current safety perceptions of life so that you can transform these
  • Bring awareness as to why you might be repeatedly experiencing certain physical states, emotions, behaviours, responses from others and events in your life
  • Support you to view both yourself and others from a different perspective, bringing about shifts in your relationship with yourself, your significant other, your children, parents, friends and colleagues etc



Next runs: Sat 30th & Sun 31st October 2021

Times: 10am-3pm both days (NZT) with break 12-1pm

Immersion Facilitator: Heidi Davidson

Location: Online via Zoom

Cost: NZ$100 per person

Heidi Davidson originally studied Psychology at Massey University with a view to developing a career in mental health services, but as life would turn out she ended up spending 20+ years delivering corporate transformation programmes across a range of industries in NZ and the UK. During this work she identified patterns that people were generally completely unaware of which ultimately determined whether sustainable transformation would be achieved.

The challenge is that in life we don’t see what we are not looking at, but we know that something is not working for us. We experience this as physical pain, disease and/or emotional impacts such as anxiety, depression, fatigue etc.

We don't find something if we are looking for it where it is not. It's when we transform what, how and where we are looking, things about us and around us start to shift too.


Upon completion of Am I Safe or I Am Safe? The Path of Least Resistance to Life you will have an understanding of how and why you may be currently perceiving the world around you as you do and the tools to bring about change within your life, including:

  • Understanding how your body and mind process external events and how this influences your internal thought creation and outward communications
  • How your underlying safety beliefs and values are created, and how the meanings that you give to your experiences are the foundations of your current patterns of behaviour
  • Recognition of the needs that underlie all human behaviour and how your attempts to meet these needs are shaping your physical, mental and emotional world
  • How and why your brain is both your closest ally and your toughest critic and how to shift what you see when you look at yourself and others in the mirror of life
  • Understanding what “everything is energy” really means and how you can direct your energy to change how you show up in the world and how you connect to others
  • Tools to access your current beliefs, meanings and thoughts and how to reframe these, resulting in changes in your awareness which directly impact the way you think, behave and interact with the world around you

Whilst we might be discussing some challenging subjects, it's a really enjoyable few days where we also poke a bit of fun at the journey of life. There is no requirement for personal sharing (it's completely your choice).

When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.



30 October @ 10:00 am
31 October @ 3:00 pm


Online via Zoom


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